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Welcome. I am Rebecca. Mother, wife and parent educator.

I provide non-judgemental expert support to parents, childcare professionals and other organisations working with children, wanting to raise compassionate, resilient and intrinsically motivated children ready to embrace their adulthood. My support is attachment focused and trauma informed. Take a look at how I can bring joy and self-reliance back into your parenting.

Before giving birth, I was a Primary School teacher for 17 years and just completed my Masters in Counselling in Education. But nothing could have prepared me for the incredible miracle of having a baby.

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Why work with Flourishing Childhood?

Despite my knowledge and professional experience with children, the post birth experience was an overwhelming and emotional time. I felt totally unprepared and lonely. I didn't know how to deal with issues like sleep, crying, needs, behaviour or manage difficult feelings arising from my own childhood. All the advice freely available on websites and in books just didn’t give me a full understanding of what was happening or practical ways of how to deal with these in an instinctual and sensitive way. I have not only dealt personally with many of the issues parents face in parenting but also have the knowledge you need to support your child’s emotional wellbeing, resilience and self regulation.

Why do I use the Aware Parenting Philosophy as my foundation?

The Aware Parenting philosophy has both confirmed and challenged my beliefs about what it means to be a parent. Fulfilling a need to create a secure attachment with my children and a close connection that I believe will allow them to grow into a confident, independent and self disciplined adult, with a deep understanding of their own feelings and needs. This is bound up in the way I interact with the world and ultimately as their strongest example to follow, it inspired me to become teacher. I look forward to sharing this gentle yet practical philosophy with you in raising your children. I am currently the only Aware Parenting teacher in the UK whereas it has taken the rest of the world by storm, I can’t wait to share how it can transform your parenting or child care stetting.

How can I support you on your journey in caring for children?

‘I found it a very safe space and warm advise was given by all in the space , without being preachy or perfectionist. Rebecca also has the humility of another parent who also admits struggles and is ok with that. I was felt I could also able to give my suggestions to others which is empowering as a dad.’
— R, parent to 2 year old twins, London

I am available for individual consultations and a Behaviour Support Package.

I offer a weekly Nurture Support Package, to support you in your parenting.

I run regular workshops.

I host a parenting support circle.

I invite parenting professionals to share their expertise in various talks and workshop events. The next one is a one day intensive on Democratic Discipline.

I also run a parent and child group which is inspired by alternate educational philosophies, with a focus on not only the children but the parent/carers. It is more than a play group, it is a holistic and nurturing group with the intention to make life with children happier, easier and more connected.

My two year old and I so look forward to Tuesday mornings. We joined Rebecca ‘s group from the start . It is unique to any other playgroup I know. I love calming atmosphere, carefully selected wooden toys, the parents craft, the rhythm it takes, with songs, circles, eating together & the story time puppet show ! Rebecca is such a warming gentle person always happy to offer her experience or knowledge in parenting . The mothers I’ve met are all lovely like minded & it’s a safe non judgmental place we have a laugh & can discuss parenting in a alternative way.
— Kelly, mother to a 2 year old, London

** I am an associate member of PTUK (Play Therapy UK)and IAN (International Attachment Network)

** I am currently enrolled in the Hand in Hand Parenting professional training. ** Qualifications and courses

** Terms and conditions

‘I love using the play technique. I can easily go down the wound up, angry, tired, stressed route which is horrible. But last night they were on the bed and I started wrapping up “the big brother parcel ‘ to send to China! And the parcel kept slipping out the packaging and I had to keep wrapping up the problem parcel who then started escaping and running around the house! Soon my daughter joined in and kept escaping her packing/duvet too! No more fighting or tears. They went to bed in minutes. Sorted!
— Althea, parent to a girl aged 8 & a boy aged 10, London